A complete discipleship system for leading intentional preteen and youth ministry
One of the primary reasons preteens may not like going to church is the feeling of disconnection. They are at an age where they are beginning to question things and form their own opinions. If they feel that they need help relating to the lessons’ content or the activities offered, they are less likely to engage. If they feel like the program is too “childish,” they will disengage.
"Preteens are highly influenced by their peers, and if they feel like they don't fit in or have friends at church, they may resist attending."
Furthermore, preteens are at an age where they are seeking independence and autonomy. They want to be treated differently than the “little kids.” When their programming is the same as that of the first graders, they will become bored.
As we address these issues, it’s important to create a welcoming environment that addresses preteens’ unique needs and interests—providing relevant and relatable lessons and activities, fostering a sense of community among preteens, and allowing them autonomy in their church experience.
"A heavy value should be placed on building relationships with students beyond just knowing their names and who their parents are."
We can help make attending church a more positive and meaningful experience for preteens if we think first about their needs.
Deep Discipleship Preteens is a complete curriculum and system with everything you need for ministry to 4th–6th grade students.
